In the early 1990s, the first Bottoming Book taught tens of thousands of people that bottoming -- being a submissive, masochist, slave, 'boy' or 'girl, ' or other BDSM recipient -- is as much an art as topping. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised New Bottoming Book gives even more insights and ideas about how to be a successful, popular bottom! Read more

*The birthday and anniversary GIFT for Couples!*Do you want to enjoy a sex life that is exciting and stimulating? 🔥How would like to enjoy sex in unusual situations and place, all at the drop of a hat? 🔥This book is for you! ✔️Good sex life is one of the cornerstones of a happy and successful marriage. But a sex life that is exciting and unpredictable is something else entirely and can add another dimension to a relationship if it is flagging or needs an injection of something different to spice it up. Making your sex life a sensational proposition can be hard for some people and you may need ideas to help you get started.This book, *69 Sex Coupons for Couples*, has plenty of great ideas that will put the fun and extraordinary back into your life and consists of coupons that you can give each other to make sex different, including ideas such as:✅ Let me have rough sex with you and be my submissive...✅ Write me the sexiest story about what you would like or dream of doing with me and then do it...✅ Turn on the sexiest song on your phone and give me a striptease...☑️ And lots more…With coupons that range from the racy to the outlandish, 69 Sex Coupons for Couples is a book that will improve your sex life and build a closer relationship with your partner at the same time.In this book you will find:✅ 34 unique coupons for her, ✅ 34 original coupons for him,✅ 1 BONUS coupon. (SURPRISE)!It is great for men and women who Love Sex and performing Erotic Acts and is guaranteed to add a new dimension to your sex life.The benefits of purchasing this book:✅ spice up the atmosphere in your relationship,✅ experience an EROTIC adventure with your partner,✅ enrich your evening moments.About the book:printed on durable and premium paper specially designed for cutting out coupons.ideal as a gift for boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife, sexual partner on the occasion of Birthdays, Valentine's Day, Christmas, Anniversary, or even Honeymoon!What are you waiting for?*Scroll up and click Add to Basket to get your COPY of this tantalizing book now!* Read more

In 2013, Joe Kort, Ph.D. and Certified Sex Therapist coined the term “side” in an article in the Huffington Post about gay men who don’t engage in penetration. Since then, he has created a Facebook group called “Side Guys” in which more than 8,000 men have found others who identify as such. Then in 2020, the gay dating site Grindr added “side” as sexual preference, further legitimizing the term. These actions have created a breakthrough for “sides” to overcome the derision often delivered by other gay men who consider being “tops” or “bottoms” the only “real sex” worth having.In this, Joe’s latest book, he shares his own story, and those of the countless men who have expressed their gratitude for finally being able to stand tall for their new identity.“Queer men often feel so much shame for their sexual desires (or lack thereof). We feel like there are only a couple of ‘proper ways’ to have ‘gay sex.’ If we’re not a power bottom with a juicy booty, a Dom top with a thick 8-incher, or a vers prince who flips easily in the sack—we’re aberrations, not normal, not ‘real gays.’ Spoiler: that’s far from the truth, and Dr. Kort knows this firsthand. By sharing his and others’ experiences with being sides, Dr. Kort helps reveal the myriad of ways we can have pleasurable sex, all while removing shame from the equation.” – Zachary Zane, Author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto“By coming up with ‘sides,’ Joe Kort gave gay men who don’t enjoy anal sex a positive way to describe themselves — instead of having to tell other gay guys what they aren’t (not a top, not a bottom, not vers). Thanks to Joe these guys now get to tell other gay men what they are: they’re sides.” – Dan Savage, Sex and Relationship Columnist and Podcaster Read more

Western cultures have often thought of the ancient practice of tantra as a form of super-sex. However, as scholar and teacher Bruce Anderson makes clear in this first guide for gay men to the art of tantra, it is actually a rigorous practice that harnesses sexual energy as fuel for spiritual development. In eight empowering chapters, Anderson explores and explains the spiritual concepts that practitioners must fully integrate into their lives before experiencing the transformative effects of tantra.How does Tantra facilitate the awakening and rise of Kundalini? What is the relevance of Tantra today for men who love men? What are the origins of Tantra? What is the goal of Tantra?Readers will be guided through the process of incorporating Tantric philosophy and practices into their sexual and spiritual through multiple excercises on:Harnessing breath as a means to awakening development. Achieving bliss through posture. Strengthening abdominals, and erections. Lovemaking techniques for achieving sacred unions. Postponing and prolonging orgasms.Bruce Anderson’s astute and unaffected approach to both the technical and spiritual elements of tantra will allow gay men to enhance the power of their lovemaking and the strength of their orgasms to reach a state of cosmic bliss.Bruce Anderson has studied with Amazonian and Plains Indian shamans as well as Tibetan, East Indian, and Egyptian tantra teachers. He is a third-level cobra breath practitioner and teaches the class "Tantra for Men" at the Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Center’s Village at Ed Gould Plaza. Read more

Euijoon riesce finalmente a confessare a se stesso ciò che prova per Gunwoo, ma il momento non potrebbe essere dei peggiori. Mentre il cupo gangster sta cercando di costruirsi il proprio futuro, Chaeyeon fa luce sui dubbi del giovane commesso. Consigliato a un pubblico maturo. Read more

This study is a book about men who love women, exploring the secret, erotic fantasies that men have always kept hidden. It is a taboo-shattering investigation which explains to women as well as to men the deepest, most conflicting feelings that men have about women, men and their own sexuality. Based on thousands of candid responses from men ranging in age from 14 through their 60s, this book goes beyond the cliche of the women seen as either madonna or whore to reveal the conflict of love and rage at the centre of men's emotions. By the author of "My Secret Garden", "My Mother Myself", "Jealousy" and "Women on Top". Read more

What is gooning? Is it a trend, a trick, or true transcendence?Put yourself in the greasy hands of a master bator, popper pro, and gooning guru, as Wynward H. Oliver, author of Homo-Work, shares his fifty-one years of bating experience and deftly guides you to achieving an altered state of euphoria called gooning.Take your bate to the next level and beyond! Discover the bliss of becoming a primal gooner, someone who unleashes the power of their fetishes, fantasies, and fears with wild abandon and prideful passion. From edging to trigger words, porn, intoxicants, toys, role-play, and addiction—and everything in between—learn to let go and to get your goon on.Gooning is so much more than crossed eyes and cringe faces, gaping mouths and drooling tongues. This book dares to ask, “What if we’ve got gooning wrong?”Not just a simple how-to manual, The Gooner’s Handbook also answers the questions, “What for?” and “Why goon at all, if so much of it is performative and gimmicky?” It explores the intricacies of the goon, as well as examines the philosophy, psychology, and metaphysics behind such intense, transformative self-pleasure.Whether you’re a curious new-cummer or a wanking whiz, all you need to elevate your bate and fine-tune your goon is at hand.You won’t go deeper, get weirder, or become worse, until you learn how to get real.Deny yourself no longer. Read more

The Ties That Bind. Bondage for everybody: Stephan Niederwiesers relaxed style and focus on pleasure are the perfect combination for this introduction to bondage, a book thats sure to benefit both the rank beginner and the experienced practitioner. Here youll find everything you need to know about the most important toys and accessories, about different kinds of knots and how to tie them securely. Youll find all the tools you need to let go of your inhibitions and get the biggest bang from your bondage experience. Read more

Sex, or the Unbearable is a dialogue between Lauren Berlant and Lee Edelman, two of our leading theorists of sexuality, politics, and culture. In juxtaposing sex and the unbearable they don't propose that sex is unbearable, only that it unleashes unbearable contradictions that we nonetheless struggle to bear. In Berlant and Edelman's exchange, those terms invoke disturbances produced in encounters with others, ourselves, and the world, disturbances that tap into threats induced by fears of loss or rupture as well as by our hopes for repair. Through virtuoso interpretations of works of cinema, photography, critical theory, and literature, including Lydia Davis's story "Break It Down" (reprinted in full here), Berlant and Edelman explore what it means to live with negativity, with those divisions that may be irreparable. Together, they consider how such negativity affects politics, theory, and intimately felt encounters. But where their critical approaches differ, neither hesitates to voice disagreement. Their very discussion—punctuated with moments of frustration, misconstruction, anxiety, aggression, recognition, exhilaration, and inspiration—enacts both the difficulty and the potential of encounter, the subject of this unusual exchange between two eminent critics and close friends. Read more

In this shockingly raw but beautifully written book, Michael Handrick unpicks the toxic narratives and myths built up by society of what it means to be a man, gay and working class. Moving through time and memory, from a rural council estate surrounded by snowdrop-filled forests, to searching for his sense of self across London, Italy, America and beyond, he explores how his struggles with mental health and abuse were compounded by stigmas around class, masculinity and sexuality. At this point in history, despite having more equal rights and media representation than ever before, the gay community is suffering a mental health epidemic. In a 2018 survey, Stonewall found that half of respondents had experienced depression, while other research shows 49 per cent of gay men have suffered from domestic abuse and 26 per cent have experienced rape, physical violence or stalking by an intimate partner. As he embarks on a journey to understand the root causes of the toxicity in our society, Handrick finds that the beginnings of the abuse, trauma and mental health crises faced by gay men, and the silence that surrounds them, remain unresolved. Difference is born on the lips, but it is society that shapes those words and actions. The mental health issues gay men live with, the abuse they go through, the stigma, prejudice and discrimination they face do not exist in a vacuum. They are created and catalysed in our societies. Difference is Born on the Lips is a call to come together and create a new conversation, and confront the systemic inequalities that the queer community should never have had to live with. Read more

With rates of sexually transmitted infections, including HIV, and sexual problems at an all time high Gay Sex, Gay Health is essential reading for all gay men, with informed advice on sexual, physical and emotional problems, including practising safe sex and taking responsibility for oneself. Serious and authoritative in tone but also upbeat and informal in style, the book also includes sections on gay sex and variations in sexual activities, recreational drugs associated with gay sex and up-to-date statistics and case studies. Read more

The Weather in Proust gathers pieces written by the eminent critic and theorist Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick in the last decade of her life, as she worked toward a book on Proust. This book takes its title from the first essay, a startlingly original interpretation of Proust. By way of Neoplatonism, Buddhism, and the work of Melanie Klein, Sedgwick establishes the sense of refreshment and surprise that the author of the Recherche affords his readers. Proust also figures in pieces on the poetry of C. P. Cavafy, object relations, affect theory, and Sedgwick’s textile art practices. More explicitly connected to her role as a pioneering queer theorist are an exuberant attack against reactionary refusals of the work of Guy Hocquenghem and talks in which she lays out her central ideas about sexuality and her concerns about the direction of US queer theory. Sedgwick lived for more than a dozen years with a diagnosis of terminal cancer; its implications informed her later writing and thinking, as well as her spiritual and artistic practices. In the book’s final and most personal essay, she reflects on the realization of her impending death. Featuring thirty-seven color images of her art, The Weather in Proust offers a comprehensive view of Sedgwick’s later work, underscoring its diversity and coherence. Read more

blurryvisions is a visceral collection of poetry and prose that delves into disillusionment, identity, and the contradictions of modern America. Through striking imagery and raw emotion, the book explores societal decay, political corruption, media manipulation, and the fragile line between myth and reality.At its heart, blurryvisions is also a deeply personal exploration of sexuality, gender, and the universal need for love and acceptance. It challenges rigid societal norms, embracing the truth that everyone deserves to be seen and loved for who they truly are.Interwoven with themes of immigration, religion, climate catastrophe, and memory, the collection forces readers to confront both the world’s horrors and its lingering beauty. In the blurred spaces between hope and despair, between past and future, blurryvisions finds its voice—one that demands to be heard. Read more

22 Oral Sex Positions - For His Pleasure : The Kama Sutra Guide for Him.New inspiring sex positions are waiting for you.• 22 positions from classic to exotic• With graphics• Perfect for couples who want to try something newHot sex positions for him - The perfect Kama Sutra game that will breathe new life into your love life. With 22 different oral sex positions, the sex positions book has something for everyone. The Kama Sutra positions / blowjob positions are provided with pictures and a short instruction text to ensure the position is successful. Wonderful erotic gift for men, husbands, partners or friends, whether as an erotic Christmas present or as an anniversary present. Have fun! Read more

This is the third edition of The leatherboy Handbook. Now with over 100 pages of new and expanded content from the previous editions. Updated advice, history, and suggestions, this leatherboy handbook is sure to be worth getting an updated copy for any leatherboy library. This new book explicitly focused on boys or submissives, features content based on community inquiries, suggestions, and requests to the author over the last five years. It has been thoroughly redesigned and is now divided into five sections for quick reference and easy absorption. Each section is focused on a different aspect of the leatherboy history, leatherboy Identity, growth, activities, and a new suggested reading list. Every chapter has been expanded from the previous, including a timeline of LGBT kink-focused history (1860 – present), petition forms, expanded cultural, political, and gear history. This new edition is also redesigned to include a more modern perspective of the leatherboy and the community.To go from an unsure "leather-interested person" to a fully evolved leatherboy is one of the hardest things a person can do in life. For some, you are coming out for the second time. But that is not the end of the journey for many people. The quest is never-ending, and the road is full of strange things, places, and lots of questions. In many cases, the road forks, and we take turns that could ultimately lead to a happy or horrible situation. This book will discuss the history surrounding the leather world, with newly added leatherboy-specific history. Even though this book was originally written from a gay perspective, please do not assume it can benefit only gay males. Sexual gender has nothing to do with being a leatherboy - as you will learn in this book, the same lessons apply to sexual orientation. Mind you, some dynamics may be altered, but the rules and reasons remain the same. This book will give you the tools and insight into the alternative sexual world of the leatherboy and the pointers you will need to succeed. For those interested in content about being a Dominant and still provides this continued insight into leatherboys or submissives, we recommend you get a copy of The Leather and BDSM Handbook by Vince Andrews. This book is primarily designed for leatherboys and submissives. Read more

The famed ancient Indian guide to lovemaking, the Kama Sutra, has been used to enhance sexual experiences since the fourth century. Now a leading gay author has reinterpreted this iconic erotic manual to create a practical sex guide for gay lovers. Clear, empowering text celebrating the art of gay lovemaking is accompanied by exquisite, sensual artworks from the original Kama Sutra and other homoerotic classical works, and tasteful contemporary black and white instructional line drawings. The book provides practical advice on sexual technique, relationships and emotional wellbeing. Featuring an illustrated journey through all the different sexual positions, and covering everything from meeting a partner, courtship and kissing to games and massage, The Gay Man's Kama Sutra is the ultimate guide to satisfying, exciting gay love. Read more

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Some stories are written with ink, but My Heartbreak Diary is written in blood, tears, and survival.This is not just a memoir it’s a harrowing and courageous account of surviving narcissistic abuse at its most dangerous. Best-selling author and advocate Daniel Ryan Cotler takes you deep into his personal journey of emotional devastation, manipulation, and psychological warfare, suffered at the hands of his abuser, Frankie Zerella, who deliberately pushed him toward suicide. Cotler survived nine suicide attempts, a brutal smear campaign designed to ruin his life, and even false criminal charges meant to silence him.In a world where narcissistic abuse often goes undetected, My Heartbreak Diary stands as a rare case of triumph: Cotler fought back and proved his innocence a feat almost unheard of in the realm of narcissistic abuse. His survival isn’t just a personal victory it’s a victory for every victim who has ever felt trapped and voiceless in the grips of an abuser.Through an intensely raw combination of poetry and prose, Cotler doesn’t just share what he went through; he bares his soul. He takes you inside the darkest moments of his life, revealing how his abuser used love as a weapon to control, manipulate, and destroy his sense of self. Yet, even as Cotler faced unimaginable betrayal and isolation, he fought to reclaim his identity and tell his story.In these pages, you’ll find not only the heart-wrenching details of his relationship but also the courage it took to survive against all odds. My Heartbreak Diary goes beyond recounting the pain of narcissistic abuse it sheds light on the rarely talked about horrors of being systematically pushed to the edge of suicide by someone you trust.This book isn’t just about Cotler’s survival. It’s about the survival of countless victims whose voices have been silenced by their abusers. Cotler didn’t stop at telling his story he went on to found the Heal Loudly Movement, a global initiative for survivors of narcissistic abuse, empowering others to speak out and reclaim their lives. His Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Community, ranked 7th in the world by Feedspot, continues to be a beacon of hope for survivors around the globe.With every poem and every passage, Cotler invites you into his world the world of a survivor who didn’t just escape, but who fought back and is now helping others heal. This memoir is not only a testament to the resilience of the human spirit but also a call to action for those still suffering in silence. It’s for anyone who has ever felt trapped in a toxic relationship, for anyone who has struggled to be believed, and for anyone who needs to know that healing is possible.My Heartbreak Diary is for those who understand the darkest corners of the soul and for those who are still fighting to see the light. By reading this memoir, you aren’t just witnessing one man’s story you are becoming part of a movement to bring narcissistic abuse out of the shadows and to make sure no more lives are lost to silence. Read more

If the title and cover of this book resonate with you, you may be questioning your sexuality. Hooray! We celebrate your curiosity! You might be in a heterosexual marriage (possibly even your second) with a minivan full of kids and still be the perfect person to read this book. We understand that there may be an element of terror mixed with thrill in even choosing this book. You are about to see yourself clearly...and it is about time. Welcome to your truth. Deep breaths, friend. No matter where you are in your "knowing", we welcome you to the LGBTQ+ community. The authors in this book are a diverse group of womxn, all figuring out creative ways to design relationships while honoring their sexuality. Some authors have not yet "come out" publicly and are bravely sharing their stories in service to you. We wish there had been a book like this available to us on our journey. It is important to know that you are not alone. We hope reading these stories will feel like looking into a mirror and finally seeing yourself. No, everything does not have to fall apart for you to claim your desires. In this book, you will read about options, possibilities, and a world of expansiveness. Being courageous and coming to a place of radical truth telling can be lifesaving for you and can help liberate those you love. May this book come to you at exactly the right time. Read more

¿Dónde están las lesbianas en la historia? Mujeres que se rebelaron contra el matrimonio y rompieron las reglas de etiqueta. Rebeldes, genias, decadentes, artistas... Señoras que, pese a todas las dificultades de su tiempo, se atrevieron a expresar su sexualidad y desafiar a su época.Este libro, que contempla desde el siglo XVII hasta el siglo XX, explora la historia pública y privada de estas fascinantes mujeres que amaban a otras -Anne Seymour Damer, Anne Lister o Josephine Baker, entre tantas otras-, para visibilizar y sacar a la luz una realidad que nunca debería haber sido secreta. Read more